It was Saturday morning at Southbay Tattoo and Body Piercing in Carson, and owner Efrain Espinoza Diaz Jr. was prepping for his first tattoo of the day a memorial portrait of a man that his widow wanted on her forearm.
Diaz, known as Rock, has been a tattoo artist for 26 years but still gets a little nervous when doing memorial tattoos, and this one was particularly sensitive. Diaz was inking a portrait of Philip Martin Martinez, a fellow tattoo artist and friend who was 45 when he died of COVID in August.
I need to concentrate, said Diaz, 52. Its a picture of my friend, my mentor.
Martinez, known to his friends and clients as Sparky, was a tattoo artist of some renown in nearby Wilmington. A tattoo had brought Sparky and Anita together; Sparky gave Anita her first tattoo a portrait of her father in 2012, and the experience sparked a romance. Over the years of their relationship, he had covered her body with intertwining roses and a portrait of her mother.
Now his widow, she was getting the same photograph that was etched on Sparkys tomb inked into her arm. And this would be her first tattoo that Sparky had not applied.
It feels a little odd, but Rock has been really good to us, Anita Martinez said. Rock and Sparky grew up together. They met in the 1990s, when there were no Mexican-American-owned tattoo shops in their neighborhood, but Sparky was gaining a reputation. It was artists like Phil that would inspire a lot of us to take that step into the professional tattoo industry, Rock said.
After Sparky got sick, Anita wasnt allowed in her husbands hospital room, an isolating experience shared by hundreds of thousands of Americans who lost a loved one to COVID. They let her in only at the very end.
I got cheated out of being with him in his last moments, said Martinez, 43. When I got there, I felt he was already gone. We never got to say goodbye. We never got to hug.
I dont even know if Im ever going to heal, she said, as Diaz began sketching the outlines of the portrait below her elbow, but at least Ill get to see him every day.
According to a 2015 Harris Poll, almost 30% of Americans have at least one tattoo, a 10% increase from 2011. At least 80% of tattoos are for commemoration, said Deborah Davidson, a professor of sociology at York University in Toronto who has been researching memorial tattoos since 2009.
The tattooed portrait of Philip Martin Martinez on Anitas arm. She chose to have it inked on her forearm to see his image every day.
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Memorial tattoos help us speak our grief, bandage our wounds and open dialogue about death, she said. They help us integrate loss into our lives to help us heal.
COVID-19, sadly, has provided many opportunities for such memorials.
Juan Rodriguez, a tattoo artist who goes by Monch, has been seeing twice as many clients since before the pandemic and is booked months in advance at his parlor in Pacoima. Memorial tattoos, which can include names, portraits and special artwork, are common in his line of work, but theres been an increase in requests due to the pandemic. One client called me on the way to his brothers funeral, Rodriguez said.
Rodriguez thinks memorial tattoos help people process traumatic experiences. As he moves his needle over the arms, legs and backs of his clients, and they share stories of their loved ones, he feels that he is part artist, part therapist.
Sazalea Martinez says shes still mourning her grandparents deaths. Its hard to connect the two, she says. I know they passed away from COVID, but to me it just feels like pain.
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Healthy grievers do not resolve grief by detaching from the deceased but by creating a new relationship with them, said Jennifer R. Levin, a therapist in Pasadena who specializes in traumatic grief. Tattoos can be a way of sustaining that relationship, she said.
Its common for her patients in the 20-to-50 age range to get memorial tattoos, she said. Its a powerful way of acknowledging life, death and legacy.
Sazalea Martinez, a kinesiology student at Antelope Valley College in Palmdale, came to Rodriguez in September to memorialize her grandparents. Her grandfather died of COVID in February, her grandmother in April. She chose to have Rodriguez tattoo an image of azaleas with the phrase, I love you, written in her grandmothers handwriting.
The azaleas, which are part of her name, represent her grandfather, she said. Sazalea decided not to get a portrait of her grandmother because the latter didnt approve of tattoos. The I love you is something simple and its comforting to me, she said. Its going to let me heal and I know she would have understood that.
Sazalea teared up as the needle moved across her forearm, tracing her grandmothers handwriting. Its still super fresh, she said. They basically raised me. They impacted who I am as a person, so to have them with me will be comforting.
This story was produced by KHN (Kaiser Health News), one of the three major operating programs at KFF (Kaiser Family Foundation).
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